The 3rd wedding anniversary is often when a couple becomes most acutely – and reassuringly – aware of the durability of their relationship That is why leather has become the traditional gift for this celebration, and in many ways the most appropriate For those who consider themselves modernists, the symbol is crystal glass. Fushsia The Traditional List shows Leather is the appropriate gift to give for the third year The Modern List has Glass as the fitting material to base a gift upon for the third wedding anniversary The Gemstone List shows Crystal linked with the third Wedding Anniversary From the Flower List the third wedding anniversary is shown as Fushsia. Happy 3rd engagement anniversary perfect husband!.